Here are 5 ways to make a guy fall deeply in love with you without playing games.
1. Date him for who he is, not for his potential
Everyone wants to be accepted and loved for who they are, but many women make the mistake of dating a guy for his potential, i.e., the man he could become in five years (with your help, of course).
But men aren’t projects. When you have an expectation for a man to change, he feels like you’re not seeing him for who he is. For some men, it could make them feel shame, like they’re not enough. If a guy feels this at the beginning of a relationship, he’ll likely cut and run.
2. Create emotional safety for him
Creating emotional safety means creating a space where someone can express their thoughts, feelings, and desires without feeling judged. When men refer to a woman as being easy to talk to, they mean that they're able to say things they typically wouldn't share with anyone else, because they know they won't be made to feel judged.
3. Keep things light and playful
People remember you based on the experiences you share together. The more positive and fun experiences you share, the more someone associates those feelings with you.
Men and women have different relationship timelines. Women tend to jump into relationships, eager to define their status and skipping over many of the fun aspects of dating, while men often take a little longer to decide if they want to pursue the relationship further.
4. Be vulnerable
The fastest way to create emotional intimacy with someone is to drop your guard and show your vulnerability. When you show someone an unfiltered version of yourself, you’re essentially giving them the key to explore every intimate detail about you, and that's a huge responsibility.
Think of what it feels like when you’ve gained someone’s trust like that. Incredible right?
When you show people your vulnerability, you creating emotional safety for a guy to do the same.
5. Give him space to chase you
One of the most common scenarios I get asked about is what to do when a guy stops chasing you.
their man is pulling away, they will overcompensate for his aloofness by trying to take control of the relationship. They'll start calling the guy, makes all the plans, generally attempting to lead the relationship where they want it to go.
