Tip #1: Get to Know Him First
Story to start with.
Ally’s mother always warned her, “He won’t buy the cow if he can have the milk for free.”
She grew up believing that having sex too soon with a man would doom her chance at having a relationship with him.
Men today are discerning when it comes to who they want to have a relationship with.
In many ways, men still hold the cards when it comes to dating.
Tip #2: Sex Won’t Make Him Fall in Love
A lot of women believe that they can entice a man to become interested by having sex with him.
Their idea goes that a man’s attention can be caught by one of three things – sex, food, or sports – and that if they offer sex, a man will definitely say yes.
It’s very important to realize that a man’s saying yes to sex with you has NOTHING to do with any romantic feelings towards you.
Men can easily disassociate sex with emotion.
Tip #3: Practice Body Love
Being comfortable in your own skin is one of the most important skills any woman can master.
Because, let’s be frank here: women are the most excruciatingly difficult body critics on earth.
We dissect our bodies down to the tiniest parts – eyebrows, fingernails, nose – and rate ourselves against models and celebrities.
It’s enough to make you wish you were born male! (Well, almost.)
Unfortunately for those of us who are particularly challenged in the body-love arena, men are particularly perceptive when it comes to seeing how comfortable we are in our own skin.
