1. CONFIDENCE
First things first! Confidence is a very attractive trait to both sexes. This is because humans are social creatures. We love human connection.
Since we love human connection so much, we hate the opposite of connection which is rejection. Rejection sucks. It feels shameful and miserable.
Sometimes our fear of being rejected can be so strong that we don’t want to put ourselves out there and engage with someone new. We want to play it safe to protect ourselves.
2. SMALL TALK
Getting good at small thing going to really help your flirting. Although flirting has a lot to do with body language, not knowing how to start a conversation is going to make it tough to whip out the flirty body language
When talking to someone you don’t know very well, you’re not going to reveal your deepest darkest secrets to them, and they won’t want to do that with you
3. EYE CONTACT
The first two tips could be used if you just want to make new friends. So what makes flirting different?
Well, flirting involves something else…. sexual chemistry.
I find that my clients want to be too upfront or forward because they don’t want to waste time or play games. But chemistry does not come from big gestures. Chemistry is in the little details.
It’s picking up on tiny little hints and nuances from the other person.
4. SMILE AND LAUGH
The next way to use body language is to smile. When men look for a woman to have a sexual or romantic relationship with, they want it to be fun.
Men are much more physically motivated than women. Women will often go out with a man just because he has a good job or is very nice.
Men want to make sure the woman he is with is physically attractive to him.
Now don’t get me wrong!
5. CASUAL TOUCHING
One of the best ways for how to flirt with a guy is to introduce some touch. Touch is a more upfront form of body language.
Since this one is more obvious and forward, you’ll want to work your way up to this.
Start with the steps I outlined before this. Then if you feel he is interested and responding well to your actions, you can introduce some casual touching.
This means a friendly push of his shoulder, a friendly slap on the knee (if you’re sitting down) or brush of the arm. Introduce touch in a friendly and not too sexual way.
