1. Enjoy yourself
There’s nothing sexier than a woman who knows how to enjoy herself. Occupy yourself with some interesting hobbies. Go out with your girls, and simply enjoy the life you’re living.
Enjoy the small things that surround you. You’ll ooze with positivity, and this is a trigger when it comes to making him attracted to you.
2. Tease him
Another trigger to intense attraction in men is teasing them. Men like to be teased because it feels like you’re poking them in order to make them fight even harder in order to win you. Tease him about the T-shirt he’s wearing or about the last message he sent you.
Subtly make fun of the things he does, and he will find it amusing and at the same time challenging. He will see that you don’t accept everything he gives you which will make him realize that you know your worth. And this realization is what makes him attracted to you.
3. Challenge him
Yes. Men are attracted to challenges. They want to show off their strength and capabilities of winning everything and everyone. If they see you as a challenge, half of your job here is done. Remember that he will be attracted to what you’re not giving him—not to what you are.
So, the best thing to do is to play hard to get from time to time in order to trigger him to realize that you are a challenge. You want him to realize that you are a high-value woman, and he needs to work hard to win you.
4. Always be in control
Remember to always be in control of your life because if you’re not, he will think that you need him in order to feel better about yourself, and this will certainly not attract him. Always be in control of your life, emotions and situations, and this will show him that you are a confident woman who has everything under control in her life.
He will be attracted to you because he will admire you for your strength and independence. He will want to be part of your life, so that he can show his friends and others what a beautiful and powerful lady he has.
5. Give him everything bit by bit
Never shower him with excessive affection and attention because this will create a counter effect from what you want. In order to be a challenge, you have to give him everything bit by bit.
This means you should never tell him everything about you instantly. Give some of your info to him, and keep the rest for some other occasion.
This also applies to physical contact. Always give him a little bit, and make him thirsty for more. These mysterious scenarios will create an intense attraction in him, and he will appreciate everything you give him, hoping that you’ll come back and give him more of what you’ve got.
