1. Make him worry about losing you by not being available ...
If you want to indirectly show your man that he will lose you if he continues behaving badly, you can act like you are unavailable to him.
Don’t be there when he needs you and live your life just like you have always dreamed of. Don’t tell him so much about your life and your friends and let him guess what you have been doing in your spare time. If you continue behaving like that for a longer period of time, he will realize that something is not right and he will try to make you happy.
2. Talk about future plans he is not included
If you tell your man that you are going with your friends to some interesting place for the weekend, he will ask himself what you will be doing with them.
Add a little bit more spice to the whole story by telling him that there will be both boys and girls from your office and that you are planning to have a barbecue near a river. It will make him wonder why he is not invited and he will constantly be thinking about if any of those guys will try something with you.
He knows that at parties like that there tends to be a lot of alcohol so he will be worried that you will cheat on him. This will be his wake-up call and it will show him that you have your life and your friends and that your happiness doesn’t depend on him.
3. Don’t answer his messages right away
Guys get tired of clingy and needy girlfriends at very short notice.
So, if you want to make him worry about losing you, don’t answer his phone calls or his messages right away. Let him wait a little bit because he will respect you more after you do that. He will see that you are not available every time he thinks of you and that he needs to go the extra mile if he wants to keep you in his life.
If you continue doing this you will see that your relationship will improve. And remember that once you change your attitude, things in your life will change for the better as well.
4. Surprise him with new sex
Here is the deal: If you want to know how to make him worry about losing you, try to make some changes in the bedroom. If you do that he will think: “Where did she learn all this?” and he will be surprised by how well you are doing it at the same time. And then in the blink of an eye, you will catch him thinking about something he won’t want to reveal.
If you ask him why he is being so distant he will just deny it and he will change the topic. But in fact, he will be wondering if you learned all those moves with another man and that feeling will eat him alive.
5. Flirt in front of him
If you want to make your man worry about losing you, do some sneaky things in order to show him that you also have other options. When a good-looking guy walks by you, look him deep in his eyes and check him out but make sure that your partner sees that. It will make him feel jealous and he will think that another man is a threat to him.
It gets even better if a random man approaches you and offers to buy you a drink, as that will make your guy want to explode but that is a lesson he has to learn for treating you like you didn’t deserve. It will be enough to do this only once to him because he won’t think that he owns you anymore.
6. Try to be more distant
Who says that love shouldn’t be a little bit wicked? If something will help you reach your goal, then go for it. If you see that your man is acting rude or that he is not interested in you anymore, try some tricks that will make him change his mind.
Acting distant will always help because he will wonder what else could be in your head other than him. If he asks you if everything is okay with you, just tell him that everything is fine and continue doing what you are doing. That will show him that you are not interested in him like before and that he has to work hard to bring your love back.
